
Bros who are 25+ How do you catch a break? Bros with actual responsibilities and expectations. Where does the rain stop beating you exactly? I like solving problems, I like how it makes me feel useful and offers a form of validation. But then getting older feels like it's a lot of never-ending problems that need solving.
The methods that you used to solve the older problems were probably not the best ones but they worked at that time and they unravel as you're facing new problems to solve.
You solve your own problems that you face trying to reach your ambitions. You solve your workplace problems. You solve your families' issues and their problems. You solve problems for your relationship.
Basically, you're always putting out a fire somewhere or giving help to start one where it's needed.
When does it end? Does it ever end? Is it all just Sisyphus pushing the rock?? Are you supposed to just find joy in pushing the rock?
At 26, I'm not the oldest, but I'm not 21 anymore, so just asking from the elders. Is it always just going to be this constant?"