Don't be the thought police of you, So what if people disapprove? So what if people judge? What's so bad about that? If they say "you suck" - can they not have a freedom to think that? Does it say anything about you at a core? NO❌ - one, they don't know you , it only you know YOU. Their opinion for the most part is speculation and projection. Two , why does it matter? Why do you want to imprison yourself to what other people think?