Hey good people the major why most of us find it difficult to reach their goals is because we "tiptoe" into life for fear of defeat and faults.Life is all about taking risks because by not taking a risk is a risk in itself.What you should do is to take calculated and non-dubious risk just like Mary Magdalene did when she touch the cloth of Jesus.. The fear of the unknown is the thin difference between optimistic individuals and pessimistic ones..no one was born a failure,it's only that we refuse to learn cos we oftenly need things to go our way all the times....so if you never won yesterday, you gonna win today and if you don't win today you gonna win tomorrow; if you don't win tomorrow then you gonna learn and come out stronger and wiser than before.... Let's keep trying cos victory is only assured to those who keep pressing on with open minds