The world we live in , it's a choice , you are going to get approved on and disapproved of regardless. Even if you put on a front and hide it, you will never escape disapproval ever. So if you know you are going to be disapproved of anyway , you can't win that GAME. It might be you. And in the end it really doesn't matter what other people think of you. Because in the end it's you and your life.They are not living it , why would you hide or compromise your life to please them when they are not living it? Why would you poison your life for that?