There are people you can't engage in meaningful conversation with. Anything you say, however genuine & loving it is, will be interpreted differently. You know why? They already formed an opinion about you. Whatever you say is perceived from the lenses of their opinion about you. They won't listen to you objectively. Your voice irritates them. That's why they cut you short in your conversations. They won't let you finish what you are saying because they deem their opinion more important. When you speak, you bruise their ego and irritate their attitude. If this happens between a couple, there will be constant arguments that if it persists, it may lead to resentment and eventually break-up. Until one is ready to change & be objective, every conversation will be viewed from the demeaning point of view. Sometimes it may lead to a total shutdown in communication, creating the disconnect that may never reconnect. That's how most marriages, families and relationships fail. The solution is mutual respect, genuine conversations, empathy and deliberate understanding.

*Have a Winning Furahi day.*💪🏿